你可知道
当女人被男人脫去自己的衣服
一絲不掛的在他面前
是需要多少的爱
你可知道
女人為什麼会背朝你睡
因为她不喜欢看你的背影
如果你以后抱著她睡
她会安心一整個晚上
你可知道
女人把每一次的愛情
當作是初戀
也是這辈子最后一个来爱
你可知道
女人那么爱吃醋不是因为不相信你
而是你在她心中太美好
她不希望這種美好倒映在別的女人眼中
你可知道
深爱你的女人在沖你發火以后
自己卻转身不断哭泣
你可知道
當女人顶著哭花的脸
走在街上
不管是不是有人在看她时
她的心已近快要死了
你可知道
她只会对她爱的男人嘮叨
也只会对她在乎的人耍性子
你可知道
她的任性 她的坏脾气
其实都只是在对你撒嬌
希望你更重視她
你可知道
假若她不爱你
她根本不会對你发火
不会希望你去哄她
更不会為你掉眼淚
因為她不爱的人沒那本事
你可知道
當你离开她
留下她獨自一人
她有多大的期待和恐懼
而這一切都只是因为她爱你
而這一切都因為你還不夠懂她
女人知道太多不該知道的事情
男人不知道太多該知道的事情
於是~你們爭吵.你认為她脾氣不好.
她认為你不夠遷就她……
於是.你們冷戰.你以為她沒有完全接受你，
她以為你不在乎她……
請給她一個擁抱一個吻.用你的擁抱你的吻
去化解她心裡的悲傷和眼角的淚水.
因為她只是害怕你的冷漠、轉身和安靜
兩個深愛的人在一起，就要
互相包容，互相理解，互相體諒，互相信任，
否則當你們真正失去時將會遺憾終生
否則美好的未來也就在你們自己手中泯滅了！
希望每一個男人都能夠好好珍惜陪伴在你身邊的女人
她們為你付出過，不求回報 卻希望你們能夠讀懂，
能夠牽著她們的手堅定地走下去
不要讓愛你的女人流淚
不要讓她傷心 更不要讓她絕望和死心！
因為女人一旦真愛了，失去她愛著的人
就意味著失去了整個世界
Sunday, February 19, 2012
Wednesday, February 15, 2012
Happy V-Days
Happy Valentine's Day to my beloved baby and everyone :)
Honestly i'm not a BIG FAN of Valentine's Day for me its just Tuesday.
Maybe its because of i never celebrate it before so i don't really care about it
I admitted i'm not a perfect girlfriend, I don't know how to care others feeling ,
I don't know how to say thank you when someone did something for me ..
Until I met my baby boy , he changed me. I learned to say thank you when someone did something to me.
I learned to care others feeling as well, I started to think for others and not only my self.
Maybe I still dint do it well, but baby i'm trying hard and changing it.
Day before Valentine , i'm just so down so moody because of him !
I care him , In a sudden i dunno what happened to him.
I thought i did something wrong again, I thought I ignore his feel once again ..
And it makes me think am i really suitable for him, should just go away from his life.
I cant even sleep well for the night till the next morning.
I told him i don't feel like going today , but i still go out .
I was so down, till when i saw him he was just so happy and i'm just like WTF am I idiot or what ?
Whats the point and why am i so care for the whole night long ?
Yes, I care .. i'm in love with him .. without knowing since when ~
I feel like want to cry all the way when i'm in car.
He told me that we have to the mall and grab some stuff, i just follow him.
Suddenly he walk into Adidas so I just sat somewhere and wait him to get his stuff.
Suddenly he asked me to try few jacket i started felt something gonna happen, i don't know what gonna happen.
He brought me this the purple Adidas ClimaWarm jacket, he told me that he has been found lot places also cant get it .. till here only he found this.
He asked me to forgive him of what he did to me on that night, seriously I tears drop on that time.
I never expect that he will give me such kind of surprise.. I feel him, I know how much he care me.
Cause he know this is my first time of celebrating valentine with love one. He wanna give me surprise.
And yeah, BIG CLAP to my baby .. He did it !!! I was so happy , touching and tears drop
Baby I just want to tell you, no matter how no matter where and no matter what you buy for me i do still love it much and like it. Cause you are the one who buy it for me <3
Thank you cause you make my day, i know its hard for you that you've to think a lot freak idea and do freak things in front of me everday just to make me smile :)
Baby you not only light up my V-Day but you light up all my day since I know you, you never fail to make me smile. Although sometime you makes me cry but I love you from the bottom of heart.
Love you.
Honestly i'm not a BIG FAN of Valentine's Day for me its just Tuesday.
Maybe its because of i never celebrate it before so i don't really care about it
I admitted i'm not a perfect girlfriend, I don't know how to care others feeling ,
I don't know how to say thank you when someone did something for me ..
Until I met my baby boy , he changed me. I learned to say thank you when someone did something to me.
I learned to care others feeling as well, I started to think for others and not only my self.
Maybe I still dint do it well, but baby i'm trying hard and changing it.
Day before Valentine , i'm just so down so moody because of him !
I care him , In a sudden i dunno what happened to him.
I thought i did something wrong again, I thought I ignore his feel once again ..
And it makes me think am i really suitable for him, should just go away from his life.
I cant even sleep well for the night till the next morning.
I told him i don't feel like going today , but i still go out .
I was so down, till when i saw him he was just so happy and i'm just like WTF am I idiot or what ?
Whats the point and why am i so care for the whole night long ?
Yes, I care .. i'm in love with him .. without knowing since when ~
I feel like want to cry all the way when i'm in car.
He told me that we have to the mall and grab some stuff, i just follow him.
Suddenly he walk into Adidas so I just sat somewhere and wait him to get his stuff.
Suddenly he asked me to try few jacket i started felt something gonna happen, i don't know what gonna happen.
He brought me this the purple Adidas ClimaWarm jacket, he told me that he has been found lot places also cant get it .. till here only he found this.
He asked me to forgive him of what he did to me on that night, seriously I tears drop on that time.
I never expect that he will give me such kind of surprise.. I feel him, I know how much he care me.
Cause he know this is my first time of celebrating valentine with love one. He wanna give me surprise.
And yeah, BIG CLAP to my baby .. He did it !!! I was so happy , touching and tears drop
Baby I just want to tell you, no matter how no matter where and no matter what you buy for me i do still love it much and like it. Cause you are the one who buy it for me <3
Thank you cause you make my day, i know its hard for you that you've to think a lot freak idea and do freak things in front of me everday just to make me smile :)
Baby you not only light up my V-Day but you light up all my day since I know you, you never fail to make me smile. Although sometime you makes me cry but I love you from the bottom of heart.
Love you.
Sunday, January 15, 2012
傷痕
夜已深 還有什麼人 讓你這樣醒著數傷痕
為何臨睡前會想要留一盞燈 你若不肯說 我就不問
只是你現在不得不承認 愛情有時候是一種沉淪
讓人失望的雖然是戀情本身 但是不要只是因為你是女人
若愛得深會不能平衡 為情困 磨折了靈魂
該愛就愛 該恨的就恨 要為自己保留幾分
女人獨有的天真和溫柔的天分 要留給真愛妳的人
不管未來多苦多難 有他陪妳完成
雖然愛是種責任 給要給得完整 有時愛 美在無法永恆
愛有多銷魂 就有多傷人 你若勇敢愛了 就要勇敢分
為何臨睡前會想要留一盞燈 你若不肯說 我就不問
只是你現在不得不承認 愛情有時候是一種沉淪
讓人失望的雖然是戀情本身 但是不要只是因為你是女人
若愛得深會不能平衡 為情困 磨折了靈魂
該愛就愛 該恨的就恨 要為自己保留幾分
女人獨有的天真和溫柔的天分 要留給真愛妳的人
不管未來多苦多難 有他陪妳完成
雖然愛是種責任 給要給得完整 有時愛 美在無法永恆
愛有多銷魂 就有多傷人 你若勇敢愛了 就要勇敢分
Falling Slowly
i don't know you but i want you
all the more for that
words fall through me and always fool me
and i cant react
games that never amount to more than they're meant
will play themselves out
take this sinking boat and point it home
we've still got time , raise your hopeful voice
you had the choice , you've made it now
falling slowly , eyes that know me
and i cant go back
moods that take me and erase me
and ill paint it black
you have suffered enough and warred with your self
its time that you won
i don't know you but i want you
all the more for that......
Thursday, November 3, 2011
Living A Life Beyond Belief
One of the greatest myths ever spread throughout the world concerns the influence of beliefs in our lives. The myth is that beliefs affect our destiny and determine what happens to us, and that our beliefs and thoughts create our life direction. People even suggest that our beliefs actually create our reality, so if we want to change our lives we have to change our beliefs. This usually means substituting negative, pessimistic beliefs for positive, optimistic ones. In fact, beliefs are merely a replacement for knowing. When we forgot who we really are and submitted ourselves to the directions of the intellect, beliefs were born. As such they are limited in their nature and limiting in their effects on us. Even the most empowering belief is still a weak replacement for knowing who we are and what our purpose is. For many years in my work as a counsellor and group leader, I would encourage people to confront their beliefs about themselves and the world and to face the experience that created those beliefs. I suggested that most or all of our beliefs come from our childhood, and that our negative beliefs emerged from painful experiences that we did not resolve at the time. I made a few mistakes when I delivered this model and I would like to correct one of them now.
The mistake was to suggest that we only needed to transform our negative beliefs, and, if we could not discover the Truth by doing so, at least we could experience more happiness with positive beliefs. The fact is that all beliefs – negative or positive - blind us to who we really are. So although positive beliefs are more comfortable, they do not bring us closer to the actual experience of who we are and what our purpose is. Believing in God does not give anyone a direct experience of God’s existence. In fact there are many stories of people who were atheists, who had incredible, transcendent experiences of an awesome power that they did not believe existed. There are also instances of people who fervently believed in God and had ecstatic experiences that later turned out to be psychotic episodes or hallucinations. I am stating these examples to make a point, and not to suggest that there is or is not a God. The point is that beliefs and thoughts are not in any way connected to Truth.
The fact is we don’t need beliefs in our lives. What we really want is a sense of certainty; a certainty that can only come from knowing the Truth. We want to know unequivocally who we are and what our true potential is. So how do we do that? Interestingly enough, the process of actually remembering begins differently for each individual. For me it started when I was driving in my car one afternoon and I began to feel a deep tiredness. I was alone in the car, but I spoke out loud, saying, “I’m just so tired of being afraid.” For another man I know, it began when he faced financial ruin for the fifth or sixth time in his life and he said angrily, “I am not going through this again!” Naturally many people have spoken those same words and nothing in their lives changed, so the magic ingredient is not in the words; it seems more likely that it is a conscious connection with a heartfelt desire.
For those who have experienced it – and some of you are reading this article right now - the beginning of the awakening process was initiated in individually unique ways, but no matter what form it took in the outside world, in all of us a spark was lit that changed our lives in less than a moment. For me it ended a forty year search for “Truth” that began when I was fourteen years old. I am no longer a seeker of Truth; I am a finder. I find it in my pain and in my limitations. I find it when I recognise the illusionary nature of the world and everything I thought was real. I experience the Truth whenever I drill through a thick cloud of doubt, fear, pain, guilt and shame, and feel my light shining brighter than any sun. And I experience it in appreciation. I can appreciate who I really am; and I can also appreciate how I completely fooled myself in the forgetting stage and convinced myself that I was utterly small and powerless. Then I can appreciate how I woke myself up in the dream, and began to learn how to fly on the wings of joy.
The mistake was to suggest that we only needed to transform our negative beliefs, and, if we could not discover the Truth by doing so, at least we could experience more happiness with positive beliefs. The fact is that all beliefs – negative or positive - blind us to who we really are. So although positive beliefs are more comfortable, they do not bring us closer to the actual experience of who we are and what our purpose is. Believing in God does not give anyone a direct experience of God’s existence. In fact there are many stories of people who were atheists, who had incredible, transcendent experiences of an awesome power that they did not believe existed. There are also instances of people who fervently believed in God and had ecstatic experiences that later turned out to be psychotic episodes or hallucinations. I am stating these examples to make a point, and not to suggest that there is or is not a God. The point is that beliefs and thoughts are not in any way connected to Truth.
The fact is we don’t need beliefs in our lives. What we really want is a sense of certainty; a certainty that can only come from knowing the Truth. We want to know unequivocally who we are and what our true potential is. So how do we do that? Interestingly enough, the process of actually remembering begins differently for each individual. For me it started when I was driving in my car one afternoon and I began to feel a deep tiredness. I was alone in the car, but I spoke out loud, saying, “I’m just so tired of being afraid.” For another man I know, it began when he faced financial ruin for the fifth or sixth time in his life and he said angrily, “I am not going through this again!” Naturally many people have spoken those same words and nothing in their lives changed, so the magic ingredient is not in the words; it seems more likely that it is a conscious connection with a heartfelt desire.
For those who have experienced it – and some of you are reading this article right now - the beginning of the awakening process was initiated in individually unique ways, but no matter what form it took in the outside world, in all of us a spark was lit that changed our lives in less than a moment. For me it ended a forty year search for “Truth” that began when I was fourteen years old. I am no longer a seeker of Truth; I am a finder. I find it in my pain and in my limitations. I find it when I recognise the illusionary nature of the world and everything I thought was real. I experience the Truth whenever I drill through a thick cloud of doubt, fear, pain, guilt and shame, and feel my light shining brighter than any sun. And I experience it in appreciation. I can appreciate who I really am; and I can also appreciate how I completely fooled myself in the forgetting stage and convinced myself that I was utterly small and powerless. Then I can appreciate how I woke myself up in the dream, and began to learn how to fly on the wings of joy.
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